Ask a Simple Question, Get a Simple Answer? Birth Matters March 2019
By Laura Maxson, LM
“I’d like to have a natural birth. Is that ok?” While, “Sure, that sounds great,” might seem like the right answer from a care provider, it’s not necessarily a helpful answer. Instead of this one question, a pregnant woman needs to ask many questions while seriously considering the answers. Wanting a natural birth is not the same as having one. Of course there are no guarantees as to how a birth will go, but there are ways to tip the balance toward natural birth.
Be specific. Ask, “What can you do to help me have a natural birth?” There are many ways this can be answered, but the answer should include many of the following points:
Get educated about natural birth – take a childbirth class, go to prenatal yoga, check out evidencebasedbirth.com and read a few books. Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth and Birthing from Within are two good ones to start with. Request that it’s written in your chart that you are aware of the pain medications options and will ask for them if you are interested. Note also that you’d like to decline the pain assessment while you’re in labor. Some- times all that talk about “how is your pain” and “how are you coping” actually brings more attention than is needed to contractions.
Go into labor on your own and stay home until labor is well established. Know your doula will be with you to offer lots of labor coping tips. Keep the lights low and avoid conversation to help stay in the “labor zone.” Give yourself plenty of time to let labor progress. Labor can progress slowly at times, so there is a need for patience. Unless there is something else going on, Pitocin or breaking the bag of water to speed up labor is unnecessary.
If your care provider doesn’t automatically cover all this information, ask the questions directly. Find out how he or she feels about intermittent auscultation, eating in labor, routine induction before 42 weeks and especially their definition of natural birth. The time to find the answers to these question are before labor begins, when there is still time to do some research and possibly change care providers and/or location of birth if need be.
Laura Maxson, LM, CPM, the mother of three grown children, has been work- ing with pregnant and breastfeeding women for over 30 years. Currently she is the executive director of Birth Net- work of Santa Cruz County and has a homebirth midwifery practice. Contact her at [email protected] or [email protected]