https://growingupsc.com/why-one-child/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=why-one-child&utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=why-one-child Thu, 24 Apr 2025 00:40:42 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.5 https://growingupsc.com/why-one-child/comment-page-1/#comment-616400 Thu, 24 Apr 2025 00:40:42 +0000 https://growingupsc.com/?p=3307#comment-616400 It is not just about the parenting Every parent wants to think they can somehow control their kids behaviors and life , One therapist once told us that parents give themselves too much credit when things go right and blame themselves too much when they go worng . All people are influneced by their emotional thoughts, their peers, family, friends, the internet and how they view the world , Not to mention mental health issues, fears, phsyical limitations and drug problems Modern life is complex and so are all of us

]]> https://growingupsc.com/why-one-child/comment-page-1/#comment-584205 Tue, 04 Feb 2025 17:18:01 +0000 https://growingupsc.com/?p=3307#comment-584205 Unfortunately it’s too late to turn back the clock as my youngest son is 40.
His brother 71/2 years older was born ready to get ahead even though his dad was not very good to him. He is successful, resourceful, and generous. He would do anything to help his younger struggling brother but the younger one does not even like his older brother. Unfortunately my younger son doesn’t like me (his mother) either.
I struggle to understand as the younger one was very well treated by his father unlike the older son. The older son is like my family. The younger son is like his dad disatified with his life and divisive. My younger son treats me like I’m stupid.
To wonder where I went wrong I’m not a physiatrist and just continually question myself and to be sure blame myself.
Mary

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